Many people have a bucket list. If you don’t know what a bucket list is, it is a list of things you would like to accomplish before you pass away.
Here are a couple of bucket lists. Which one would you pick?
BUCKET LIST #1
- Buy a big house with a waterfront.
- Have my own horses to ride.
- Take a Mediterranean cruise.
- Visit Australia and New Zealand.
- Write and publish some books.
- Become a motivational speaker.
- Start a business.
- Drive across Canada.
BUCKET LIST #2
- Build my faith.
- Have a happy family.
- Make good friends.
- Help other people.
- Make a difference in the world.
- Donate to a worthy cause.
- Write books.
- Have a peaceful life.
So which list would you pick? I never made a bucket list until now, but the first one would have been something that I would have written about 20 years ago. The second list is one that I would write today. There is a huge difference in the 2 lists. The first one is mostly about me and what I can gain in life. The second list is more about helping others and trying to accomplish things that have lasting value. I can tell you that when I was focusing on making myself happy, I was never successful and usually was pretty miserable. However, when I changed my perspective on life and began to focus on others instead of myself, my happiness level started to rise.
When we only think of ourselves and believe that things in this world will make us happy, the result will be short-lived happiness and long-term misery. However when we look at the world and try to figure out what we can do to make a difference in the lives of other people, the result is long-term joy and peace. So what is on your bucket list?