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I sincerely believe that it is far more beneficial and far less costly to help a child build confidence than it is to fix an adult who has little or none.

This pandemic of fear is destroying our kids!

Fear is a terrible thing. It is an invisible force that literally sucks the life out of us. It causes irrational thinking and can be very contagious. We can pass on our fears to other family members, our children and everyone around us.

I am greatly concerned about our children in this craziness over the coronavirus. They are growing up in a world of fear and their precious lives are being destroyed.  What kind of future will they have? We are teaching them to fear sickness and death. We are teaching them to avoid people. We are teaching them to obey and not fight for their rights.

It is very sad when anyone dies but sickness and death are a normal part of life. Germs and viruses have been around forever and we can’t live in a bubble. Every day until now we have risked our lives without a second thought.  About 150,000 people die EVERY day from accidents, suicides, contagious diseases, strokes, heart attacks, cancer and other illnesses. Have we ever locked down the world to stop this from happening? NO because we CAN’T stop sickness or death!

Our governments and the mainstream media have convinced so many people that covid is going to kill everyone, causing an irrational fear of sickness and death. In the beginning, we were told about the deaths and now the death rate is way down, they are reporting cases to keep us in fear.  The number of cases should not scare us, they are just positive tests and they actually bring down the percentage of deaths per million and brings us closer to herd immunity and the end of the virus. This is NOT the worst virus and according to numerous reports by experts all around the world who are backed by scientific evidence, this is no worse than the annual flu except for very ill people and mainly the elderly.  We should be working to keep these people safe and allowing the large majority of the population to get back to living a normal life.

ALL deaths are horrible but we need to consider ALL people and what risks are being taken.  In an epidemic people will die but when we lock down the world and impose draconian restrictions, EVERYONE suffers! We will all get sick sometimes and eventually we will die. That is a fact. Most of the people who died in the past few months were very ill and already dying from cancer or other diseases and illnesses, yet they were classified as dying FROM covid, not WITH covid which makes the deaths look worse than they really are. Here is an article that confirms this fact. https://www.foxnews.com/politics/birx-says-government-is-classifying-all-deaths-of-patients-with-coronavirus-as-covid-19-deaths-regardless-of-cause

Mainstream media continually presents stories and shows pictures of people dying from covid with scary looking tubes and wires. If course this makes us feel bad. But what if the media showed showed us pictures of people torn and bleeding in car crashes 24/7, would we soon be terrified of driving? If the media showed pictures of people dying from cancer and other horrible illnesses everyday all day, what affect would this have on our wellbeing? I have watched 2 people slowly die from lung cancer and believe me, it was just as horrible as a covid death.

I feel very sad for the people who have died from the virus and I am not downplaying the seriousness. However I am far more concerned about what the lockdowns have done to society.  Deaths from suicides, overdoses, missed surgeries and undiagnosed illnesses will likely surpass covid deaths.  Half the world has lost their jobs and businesses and will live in poverty; many will die of starvation. Addictions are increasing. Child abuse is growing rapidly.  Families are being destroyed.  We are being treated like animals and people are being shamed and ridiculed if they don’t share the same beliefs.

We need to start paying attention to what is going on and stop giving in to irrational fears. There is so much evidence that shows we are being led to fear a virus that has a 99% recovery rate. Viruses will be with us forever and we can’t eradicate death. We need to be careful and take necessary precautions but we NEED TO LIVE! Right now we are not living. We are being held hostage by corrupt governments that want us to live in fear so we will they can track us and vaccinate us. This is NOT a conspiracy theory.  It is happening everywhere. Just do the research but you won’t find it on mainstream media. They are controlled by global companies that want to hide the truth.

We are in serious trouble unless we all get together and fight this tyranny! Mandatory masks are just the first step, then mandatory contact tracing/tracking and mandatory vaccines. Think I am crazy? Look at Australia. They have been completely locked down. Stores and businesses are closed. People have to stay within 5 km of home. Only 1 person in a household is allowed to go for groceries.  They can go outside for 1 hour between 8 and 5. No exercise allowed. WHY? Because they have 483 new cases – NOT DEATHS, just cases that are people who have tested positive but not even sick. Australia has a total of only 255 covid deaths since January in a country of about 25 million!! This is insanity! According to the Australian Bureau of Statistics “44,079 doctor certified deaths (not covid) occurred between 1 January 2020 and 28 April 2020″!!! But who cares about those deaths. Only covid deaths are important, right???  My prayers go out to those poor people in Australia!

The sad fact is, Canada will soon be in the same situation if people don’t wake up and see what is really going on! By listening to the lies from the media and being compliant without a fight, we are destroying our own lives, the lives of our families and the future of our children. What kind of world are we going to live in? Things are only going to get worse if we don’t stand up for our freedoms. 

I keep praying that God will expose the lies being perpetrated by mainstream media, our corrupt governments and certain health professionals and bring them to justice.  Then maybe fear will be dispelled and people can regain their logic and common sense!

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The egg lesson

chicken holding eggHow much does an egg weigh?  Not much, maybe a few ounces.  So it wouldn’t be too heavy to hold for a while, right?

If I asked you to hold your hand out and placed an egg in your palm, how long do you think you could hold it before you would start to feel pain in your hand and arm?  A few seconds, a minute, an hour, all day?

You could probably hold it for a few minutes before your hand and arm started to hurt and feel numb, but you would not likely be able to hold it all day or even for an hour.

Now, an egg is certainly not heavy, so why would you feel more pain the longer you held it in your hand?  It doesn’t get any heavier just because you hold it longer.

How could you avoid having pain?   The answer is easy.  Just let the egg go back in the tray.

What is the life lesson that we can learn from the egg?  The egg represents our problems.  If we hold on to our problems for just a short period of time and then let them go, we don’t feel much pain.  However, the longer we hold on to our problems, the more pain we have.  If we continue to hold on to our problems day after day, we can become paralyzed with pain and we will stay stuck in one place.

We have to learn to let go of our problems as quickly as possible so we can continue to move ahead in life.  How can we do this?  Here are some ideas:

  • admit that you have a problem
  • understand that this problem is causing you pain
  • be willing to feel your pain
  • take action to resolve the problem if this is possible
  • work on overcoming your fears
  • talk to someone you can trust
  • believe in a higher power whom you can release your problem to

Try not to continue hanging on to your problems.  They are hurting you and causing unnecessary pain and stress.  Write down your problems and really look at them.  Are they worth carrying with you throughout life?

More relationships are destroyed by holding onto problems that are not even worth the time and effort we spend on them.  Every day has new situations that need to be faced and we should be ready to deal with these instead of dragging around old problems.   At the end of each day, take action to resolve any problems that have come up and start each day fresh with no added stress from the past.

Don’t hold on to that egg any longer that you have to!  Let it go and release your burden.  Enjoy your life, you deserve it!happy face with bird

 

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Fear of failure

Fear of failure is one of the biggest fears that people have. We have to realize that everyone makes mistakes and it is part of life. Fact is, the most successful people have made many mistakes before they were successful.

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FEAR False Evidence Appearing Real

Fear is a terrible feeling.   We’ve all experienced it.  Everyone is likely to fear something.   Children are often afraid of the dark or scary monsters.  As we grow into adults we can develop fears of  anything or anybody.

Fear is important as it gives us a response to physical and emotional danger but too often we fear things that are not life-threatening and then fear steals our time and energy.

Most of our problems are linked to fear.  People are afraid of failure, being laughed at, being hurt, being poor, being lonely.  People are afraid of spiders, snakes, mice, wild animals.  I didn’t realize there were so many different types of fears.  People suffer from an endless variety of phobias that seem very strange, but are also very real.  Here are some unusual ones:

  • Porphyrophobia – fear of the colour purpleSignature:baed3687aecc9fc02b05e033f52ab04b5ac34144c6f0702c4e0cfe36f9d34041
  • Chaetophobia – fear of hairy people
  • Odontophobia – fear of teeth
  • Dextrophobia – fear of objects on the right side of the body
  • Nomophobia – fear of being out of mobile phone contact
  • Scopophobia – fear of being looked at
  • Phagophobia – fear of swallowing
  • Alektorophobia – fear of chickens
  • Chionophobia – fear of snow
  • Ergophobia – fear of work
  • Mycrophobia – fear of small things
  • Phobophobia – the fear of being afraid

The only way to get over your fear is to face them head-on, especially if they are causing problems in your life.  When I was a child I had recurring dreams of drowning, so I developed a fear of water and I panicked whenever I went out in a boat or was swimming.  I overcame this fear as an adult by taking swimming lessons – at first I was terrified, but now I am able to go into the water with a minimum of fear.   I have other fears, like a fear of heights and fear of snakes but these are ones that don’t really stop me from living my life.  If your fears are paralyzing or debilitating, you should seek professional help.  Don’t keep running from your fears or stay in bondage for the rest of your life, get some help and learn how to become confident enough to face your fears.

Remember most of your fears are not real at all – they are just False Evidence Appearing Real!  Don’t let your fears control your life!

Some quotes about fear……..

Feed your faith and your fears will starve to death.  ~Unknown

There are very few monsters who warrant the fear we have of them.  ~Andre Gide

Fear cannot take what you do not give it.  ~Christopher Coan

Fear makes the wolf bigger than he is.  ~German Proverb

He who fears something gives it power over him.  ~Moorish Proverb

 

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